I subscribe to a few YouTube channels, among them Christine Kane.
She is a life coach and does some really good presentations. The one I watched today is 5.43 minutes long and deals with Playing to Win versus Trying Not to Lose.
Its an interesting take on how we deal with criticism and praise. She gives an example of how we compromise our visions, especially after first facing initial negative feedback. If we are uncertain or have unrealistic expectations, inner voices may raise up to agree with the critics.
Never losing sight of the journey or goals is very important. Building skills and confidence is a worthy task, no matter what the undertaking. Practice, practice and more practice will bring the results we seek.
Her videos are worthy of several views, and I hear she even has a blog: